Dogonit!

Well…the kids out-played, out-lasted and won.  We finally gave in and got a puppy.  After thinking of every possible excuse and managing to put it off for at least 5 years we knew the battle was over.  We now welcome a new member of our family who is adorable to say the least, but is sure to cause some mischief! If Emme’s Feline Goddess is any indication, I am in for a real treat.

Here’s how we managed to stall the kids for so long-and how they were ultimately victorious:

1st We told them we could not ever have a dog because some of our family members have allergies.

This lasted for at least a year until they became more outgoing and confident to talk to other people on outings.  Like any kids, they love to pet dogs at the park.  When they started making conversation they would ask dog owners what kind of dogs they had.  One day someone said they had a hypoallergenic dog. “What does that mean?” they asked, “It means this dog is good for people who have allergies.”, the owner replied, thus lighting up our kids’ eyes and moving us onto our second strategy.

2nd We made it clear that hypoallergenic dogs cost a lot of money and it wasn’t something we could afford.

Over the course of the next two years the kids saved all the money they got for birthdays and holidays.  My husband and I just thought they hadn’t found anything they wanted to buy yet and were perhaps saving up for an X-Box or something like that.  Imagine our surprise when they came to us and said they had saved $1000.00!  When they asked us where they could go to buy the dog and how soon could we do it, we had to think fast.

3rd We were renting our house and told them the owner did not allow pets in her house.

This made them angry, but they understood and went to get guinnea pigs instead.  Needless to say, the squirmy poop-a-lot pigs did not fulfill their need.  We then became the family who would take other people’s dogs for walks and pet-sit if they went out of town.  Our kids would disappear at house parties and we would find them sitting with the dogs.  We bought them an ultimate care guide book about dogs and told them they would have to read the whole thing.  Sticking true to their quest, they did everything asked and behaved very responsibly.

Their big win came when we told them we were moving.  The very first words they both screamed were “NOW…we get the dog!”  Believe it or not, we still managed to hold them off a while by explaining that we needed to be completely settled in our new house with all of the unpacking done.  After what must have felt like a very torturous 5 years for the kids, they arrived home one evening to see their new best friend sitting at the door with a big doggy smile.  A grand victory indeed!

OK, she is pretty cute!

Mature

The last couple of weeks , I’ve been having to make some very tough decisions.  I’m always reminded at times like this how lucky I am to have such great and incredibly supportive friends and family in my life. And more recently to be working with a wonderful personal coach, like Jennifer Priest.  This year has been filled with so many changes and Jennifer has been helping to make sure they are positive ones.

The debonair and thoughtful Stefan, recently sent me this word play on my name:

Very sweet of him and amidst a lot of tough decisions this brought a smile to my face.  I just didn’t get why Stefan would see me as ‘mature’, especially since I like to think of myself as a modern day Peter Pan.  Then I thought about the last few weeks and the decisions that were facing me and I got it.  Even though, I am having more fun then ever and enjoy a lot of laughter and silliness, I, in part enjoy that because I’ve grown up.

A big thank you to Stefan and Jennifer for allowing me to see that maturing is a good thing!

The Chocolatey Snowshoe Verdict

moonlit snowshoe for two by paul+photos=moody.
Photo by Paul Moody

Not an easy thing to do to decide on the perfect dates for Kittyn and I for tonight for our delightfully romantic winter date to Cypress Mountain.  I’ve wanted to go on the Chocolate Fondue Snowshoe Tour for so many years now that this is not a decision to be made lightly.  Also I have to say, theres been some damn sweet, most flattering and rather amusing Valentines.

No. 9: Dark chocolate fondue by afloden.

So here are my thoughts:

Would love to take either Clive or Christian (@daubu), but they live too far away to make it here on time.

Adore my little Dose of Lunacy (@monicahamburg) and @saltybean, but they hate snow and I don’t want them ruining my love of snow (already I’m thinking of gagging Kittyn, at least until we arrive at Hollyburn Lodge).

Raul will always be my Valentine, but I may have to strangle him if he starts whispering ‘sweet Microsoft Vista nothings’ in my ear, so he’s out, as that would take away from the romance.

Tris, the Hussey, is a taken man and I want a bit of romance, so he’s out.

My ginger’s letters made me laugh, but call me weird (and many have), but I don’t find having my eyeballs plucked out with a spoon to be all that romantic and I want romance.

@ericaha is the perfect snow loving gal, but she confessed to me that she actually already has plans for this evening.  Should have known the good ones would go fast.

It is for my desire for romance that I’ve decided to make Keith my date.  His letter is the most romantic and I do have to admit that he’s a good kisser, plus he likes nibbling on my ears.

For Kittyn, I’ve decided that ‘Savannah’ would be the perfect date for her, as they are both brats and deserve each other.

Congrats Keith and ‘Savannah’!  Looking forward to discovering how the night unfolds!

Kisses,

Emme

One Last Valentine from a Hummer of a Friend

Now that I am feeling a little embarrassed about the number of Love Letters I’ve posted on this site in the past few days, I am posting one last one (aside from any that Miss Fuzzywiggle Furrypants Roo receives in the mail, of course).  I saved this one for last, as it is from a hummer of a friend, a man who always has a great big hug for me, and as he cross-posted this love letter to his blog.  Thank you Raul!  Love you too!

Raul and Emme by Lola May.

Photo by Lola May

Dearest Emme,

I was walking along the streets of Gastown, and as I was doing some window-shopping, I noticed that I stared at beautiful clothes while thinking of you, longing to know when we’d hang out and talk Ubuntu, geeking out in our laptops. Yes, I admit it, Emme. I *am* a geek. A sweet, WordPress-trained geek. With a healthy dose of side skills as well. I know how to open a bottle of wine. YES! I learned to open wine bottles last year. I know – it’s like… I *should* have known how to, but oh well. I didn’t. But now I do. I even know about sustainable wines! Yes, my friend Anthony (from Farmstead Wines) distributes bio-dynamic wines, and I really love this kind of wine – I am sure you’d love it too. And yes, they are amazing. We should have a glass of a biodynamic wine when we go out chocolate-fondue-consuming :)

Oh, but you wonder which other skills do I have? Well, I can liveblog with CoverItLive :) does that count as a skill? Um… Let’s see… which other skill do I have? Well… I am great at hummingbird-ing my way around a room while remembering the name of each and every blogger who participates in the Vancouver Blogger Meetup. Heck, I even organize said meetup!

For all the reasons above, dearest Emme… since I speak WordPress, I am learning about Ubuntu and I’m all about empowering people to be and feel sexy regardless of age, race, religion … will you be my Valentine?

Love,
Raul

A Valentine from the UK

The Stereotypical British Tourist by rofanator.
Photo by rofanator

I do love a man with a British accent.  Sadly this one is a little too far away to join me for a romantic date on Cypress, but he did facebook me a few delightful words:

I love your photos Emme. Mystery girl. The sort a guy can dream about. Hope you have a great weekend and that it gives you all that you wish for yourself.

x

Thank you my two fisted, beer guzzling Brit!!

Kisses,

Emme