Work vs Love ~ Can’t a Gal Have It All?

Oh Sweetie Pie, your young, but don’t make the same mistake I did.

At 36, I gotta say that love is more important than work, and I say that after just having spent my entire Sunday working (and not on purpose).  I do love my work, but would happily put the love of my life first.  Guessing that at the end of the day that person would support me having both.

My two cents worth.

Emme xoxo

Why I Don’t Have a Boyfriend …

Suddenly, it’s all so clear:

Clearly I needed Anjelah Johnson in my life sooner to shine a little light on my love life or lack there of.  Nails chewed to the quick augmented by an earlier faux pas pointed out by my cousin, of actual books in my house.  Surprised I haven’t been dubbed the crazy cat spinster yet by the neighbourhood kids.

A Van Sexy Date Pick: Here on the Flight Path at the Metro Theatre

I had a rough end to last week, probably mainly brought on by exhaustion. At any rate, I was a little more emotional than usual and feeling a little beat up in matters of the heart.  So had to somewhat chuckle at my Saturday night plans – dinner and the theatre – a romantic comedy about raw hearts – the perfect date night – with a long lost girlfriend from uni. Although somewhat ironic after my last couple of days, this actually turned out to be exactly what I needed – a really good laugh with someone I could just be me with.

John (Sam B. Barnes) and Fay (Megan Phillips), as shot by Brian Campbell.

So what was the show?  Norm Foster’s Here on the Flight Path at the Metro Theatre, a good light hearted comedy about navigating your way through life and relationships from the perspective of one man and three very different women. Kind of like the story I’m writing, only I don’t have quite so many voices in my head.  Had to chuckle at myself as I often talk to my audience, but when Samuel B. Barnes did as John Cummings, at first I wasn’t quite sure how to take it. It didn’t take long, however, for me to look forward to John’s little asides and insights to the audience.  Oh and how I felt for him with the loss of each new neighbour and the anticipation of what could be with the next, laughing at their quirks and that much harder when I saw one (or to be honest, a few) of my own in them. Well played by the entire cast – Samuel B. Barnes (as John Cummings), Megan Phillips (as Fay), Sarah Szloboda (as Angel), and Robyn Daye Edwards (as Gwen). They left me wanting more. And my girlfriend, who has never reviewed a play before, decided this was the perfect date – dare she even say, a first date. Although maybe not for the freshly divorced, unless a good laugh at your predicament would be therapeutic. Not recently divorced myself, but certainly in the foibles of dating, and therapeutic is exactly what this was for me.

John (Sam B. Barnes) and Angel (Sarah Szloboda), as shot by Brian Campbell.

The Metro Theatre is interesting unto itself.  I’d love to know it’s history.  From the pictures on the wall, it appears to have been acting as a theatre for longer than I’ve been alive, but it also has the look of an old cinema. Just be warned, give yourself an extra few minutes to find yourself a parking spot, if driving, although there is a parking lot just under the bridge that had plenty of empty spots.

As for our dinner, that was at Shota Sushi and Grill in Kerrisdale, which while not cheap, was very tasty and satisfying.

If this sounds like a good date or evening out to you, then you can catch Here on the Flight Path at the Metro Theatre now until February 13, 2011.

“The World Keeps Spinning Around, But I Feel Like I’m Standing Still.” ~ Codie Prevost

Can’t help thinking that Codie Prevost is simply echoing how my heart and mind feel just now:

… which is why Brie, Tommie and I are planning to see where our feet can take us.

More than Friends?

It’s almost like Serena Ryder wrote this as a sound track of my summer and the 5 or so years leading up to it:


Serena Ryder “All For Love”

If anyone happens to have a road map to the men in my world, I’d greatly appreciate your sharing it with me.