The Girl Who Tried To Cheer For An American Hockey Team

I have discovered that seeing an NHL hockey game in Los Angeles is a very affordable thing to do.  You can get tickets for $30-40 and they always have availability! I’ve been taking advantage of this with a few other Canadian friends and we have now been able to see all of our favourite Canadian teams as they come out here to play the American hockey team; LA Kings.

You can imagine our surprise when we all met up at the subway station and one of our friends was sporting an LA Kings shirt! She announced to the rest of us that she felt she had been living in LA a long time now, so she thought it was time to start rooting for her home team. You can bet we all let her have it for that!  You see … it’s an unspoken rule that no matter where you live, when it comes to hockey, any Canadian team will always be your home team. On this particular day the Winnipeg Jets were playing.


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You otherwise wouldn’t know it, but BOTH of these girls are Canadian!


If we own jerseys, hoodies, or any apparel of the visiting team, we wear them to the game.  If not, we wear whatever Canadian gear we have.  It’s amazing how many others from the ‘True North’ you’ll spot at the Staples Center. Our friend, however, didn’t think all of this through! Of course, we made friends with other Canadians around us and pointed out the trader in our presence.  She would hush us and say that she was busy trying to concentrate on training her eyes to follow the other team. If the Kings scored she would clap and cheer, but it lacked any real look of joy.  She really did put in a lot of effort.

Somewhere in the 3rd period, when the Jets scored for the second time, our friend unleashed a fist-pump to the sky accompanied by a loud, deep from the belly cheer that had everyone around turning their heads. The rosy colour of life returned to her cheeks and she proclaimed, “I’m back!”

When we went out for a drink after the game, she explained that while she was watching the game as a Kings fan, she really wasn’t enjoying the game at all, but when she switched back to cheering for the Jets she started to have a great time and love hockey again, even though the Kings won the game. Let this stand as an experiment that was conducted on behalf of all Canadians, so no one else will have to go through it.  You have permission to cheer for other teams, but when you are out of country and ANY Canadian team is playing, even if you’re not normally a regular fan of them, THEY ARE YOUR HOME TEAM! It’s for the love of the game, and your own good.  After all, WE ARE HOCKEY!!!


A Night Out With Jim Fox

Jim Fox must have been happy to see some fellow Canadians at the LA Kings game the other day.  It shouldn’t have come as any surprise, as they were playing the Toronto Maple Leaf’s! For those who don’t know, Jim Fox is a retired Canadian NHL player who spent all 9 of his seasons with the Kings.  Before the game started they gave a special ceremony honoring him. On the way in the door they gave each of us our own Jim to hang out with!

Our Jim started off being pretty cool.  He hung out and watched the game with us, ready to broadcast the highlights at any moment if we needed him to.


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Looking good Jim! Our view from the Platinum Lounge at The Staples Center.


After a while, Jim wasn’t satisfied with just standing around and he decided to get in on our fun.  Turns out Jim’s a lot of fun himself!


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Jim’s still a good Canadian, enjoying a fine beer! (That’s Shock Top with a slice of orange)


I wonder how he felt about the outcome of the game? The Leaf’s beat the Kings, so being that hockey is such a Canadian sport would he be sad that his team that he played for lost, yet still be happy because it was a Canadian team who won? He must have felt a bit conflicted because he insisted on coming out with us after the game.


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Jim took over the joint and had to set the mood with his favorite party songs!


Trouble came when Jim realized he wasn’t the only Jim at the pub! You see, other hockey fans went out after the game and they had their own Jims too.  That’s when our Jim went a little crazy trying to prove he was the man.


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He planted some fresh ones on the ladies!


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But soon got in way over his head … seriously, he could barely keep his head on straight!


It was pretty clear to all of us that Jim didn’t really think any of this through.  He went all out, and was a ton of fun, but in the end he just wasn’t the playa he made himself out to be … he ran out of money.


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I have to admit, I did feel for the guy.


Better luck next time Jim! Hey, think of it like this … I saw a lot of people leave their Jims behind when they left, but you got to come home with us, so in the end you really did win!


Realwheel’s Brings ‘Whose Life Is It Anyway?’ to The Cultch in Vancouver

Laugh, cry, and open your mind to the sensitive topic centering around the right to die.  Realwheels brings their production of  Whose Life Is It Anyway? to the historic theatre at The Cultch starting this Tuesday March 11th, and playing until Saturday March 22nd.

Written by award winning playwright Brian Clark, the play is set in a hospital room with the action revolving around main character Ken Harrison.  Ken, a brilliant sculptor was in a car accident and is now paralyzed from the neck down and is determined to be allowed to die despite the MD’s determination to do their job and keep him alive.  Who will prevail?

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Should someone be allowed the right to choose whether to live or die? Ken Harrison’s character will leave you asking that question after you see Whose Life Is It Anyway?

I had the pleasure of sitting in on a couple of the rehearsals and had the chance to learn more about Realwheels, the play, the cast and the director.  I was amazed at how the cast worked so well together. Director John Cooper was always open to suggestions from both cast and crew.  John explained, “I feel very fortunate to have such a high caliber group of actors to play with.”  This was quite clear as I noticed John would always comment on how great everyone was doing and thank them for their patience throughout the process.

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Director, John Cooper giving feedback to the cast at rehearsals, as photographed by Rena Cohen

So … should someone be allowed the right to choose whether to live or die?  I find this question constantly running through my head, especially with this play and current debates bringing it to the forefront.  What happens if they are terminally ill?  What if they become a quadriplegic like Ken Harrison?  What would I do in that situation?  What if it was a loved one?  The questions go on and on … everyone has their own opinion on the right to die, and very strong opinions at that. Is there a right answer? Don’t draw your own conclusions without seeing Who’s Life Is It Anyway?  first.

Bob Frazer plays the role of Ken Harrison.  Bob finds the inspiration for the role from longtime friend James Sanders.

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James Sanders and Noelle Sediego (Assistant to Pam Johnson, Set & Prop Design) sit through a table read at rehearsals, as photographed by Rena Cohen


James is the founder of Realwheels and was first inspired by this play (at the time, in the form of the 1981 movie) as a young person with quadriplegia who was new to the world of disability, following a spinal cord injury.  Whose Life Is It Anyway? helped James to carry on and create artistic expression out of his own experience.  After talking with Bob, I quickly found out that he was originally going to play the role of the Doctor and James was going to play Ken Harrison.  Due to health issues James was unable to take on the role.  Both James and John thought Bob would be perfect for the role, because of his 25 year friendship with James. Bob says that not only is James his true inspiration for this piece, but for the entire role.

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Bob Frazer as photographed by Tim Matheson

In my opinion, Bob is perfect for the role.  Yes, he might not have a disability, but he’s been by James’ side through his whole journey.  He’s had James to ask all the deep, personal questions and has an enormous amount of respect and admiration for what he has to go through.  Bob explained, “James and I have had such a great relationship, because I’ve never treated him any differently than the guy that I knew back in theatre school.  I never felt sorry for him and never acted like I did.”

Realwheels was created to further the understanding of living with disabilities, through art and creative expression.  They are prominent both in the professional theatre community and the disability community. To learn more about the great things Realwheels does, and what Rena Cohen, Managing Director of Realwheels/Producer of Whose Life Is It Anyway? feels about being a part of this great theatre company, click here.

Whose Life Is It Anyway? will pull at your heart strings and challenge your humanity, all while being wildly entertaining!  Catch the play from March 11th to 22nd nightly at 8pm.  Purchase your tickets for March 13th or 18th and enjoy a lively post show Q & A session.  Realwheels is offering Sign Language Interpretation provided by A.S.L. Interpreting Inc., and a Described Performance by VocalEye for those with vision loss offered at the matinee on Sunday, March 16th at 2pm.  Tickets are available now from The Cultch starting at $18 or call 604-251-1363.

Connect with Realwheels on Facebook and Twitter to get involved in the conversation around #WhoseLife and be sure to leave your comments on the show.

Enjoy the Performance!

Strong Feelings for Doug Paisley

For those of you sexy cats that have been kind enough to have joined me on my journey these past few years, you’ll know that I have a passion for the indie arts scene, especially here at home in Canada.  And that I tend, when a musician touches my soul or makes me smile, to go on streaks of sharing their music.  But most of all I beam with pride and shout it to the world, when I happen to know one of those musicians that touches my soul or makes me smile.  Especially if I love and adore them as people. For a few of you that have been reading here or on Roamancing for awhile, you’ll be familiar with this quirk of mine with musicians such as Ross Neilsen, Chris Blake, and Jesse Roper. Some of you might even remember me writing about a fellow by the name of Doug Paisley.


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It is Doug Paisley who I want to stand on the rooftops and shout about today! Have known and adored Doug since birth, but as often happens with childhood friends, you lose touch with what has become of each other.  When I finally rediscovered Doug, it was through his music, and I could hardly believe that this talent who sings with the likes of Lesley Feist, was my childhood friend who I always use to get into trouble with.

Then a couple of weeks ago, there was Doug on one of my favourite CBC Radio Shows, the Q with Jian Ghomeshi!  I was giddy with excitement, shouting out my pride to the dog, the cats, and anyone that would listen on my social media feeds!  Here is a clip from the Show:



Proud to share that Doug’s third album, Strong Feelings, was released this past week!



Can hardly wait to get my paws on it!  Or for the road trips that I am sure it will join me on, singing along with Doug as I drive!  Purring at the thought!


Emme    xoxo

Play Along With Our #musiclove2ear Campaign!

Everyone has music they love to listen to, a song that gets stuck in your head, or a personal theme song fueling their actions.  Let’s share them and get the world singing along!

For me, it’s the singing along part that poses a problem.  I am an absolute sucker for songs with brilliant harmony. I could listen to them over and over and they often move me to tears, but mostly I’m blown away by people’s ability to do it.  I can’t even join in a harmonized version of Happy Birthday! To the people who are able to rearrange songs and make them sound completely new and incredible … you are truly blessed! This couple’s audition for the X-Factor hands down nails it all.  Not only are they the hands down cutest couple who are madly in love, but they bust out a super sultry slowed down uber harmonized song.  They are my current heroes and my #musiclove2ear.



In an effort to try and help myself improve, I found these two guys trying to give a lesson on how to sing harmony.  There were many other videos of very professional people trying to teach me with piano keys and fancy octave words, but these guys hit my ability level on the mark.  I think they sound more like I do too and that cracks me up, but actually gives me something to work with!



Join in with us on your feeds with the hashtag #musiclove2ear and share your music mojo.