Today’s Headline: Generation Y: It’s All About Me

The Hamilton Spectator carried the headline today, ‘Generation Y: It’s All About Me’. The article commented on a study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, co-authored by San Diego State University psychology professor Jean Twenge, on Generation Y, also known as the Millennials, and now Generation Me.

 

As seen in today's Hamilton Spectator

 

They said and I quote,

“Millennials aren’t as special as they think they are, according to a new study.

Those born between the years 1982 and 2000 are characterized as being more focused on material goods such as fame, fortune and image rather than goals that help the broader community, such as saving the environment.”

 

It goes on to say that although Generation Y, might talk more about politics, than my generation, Generation X, they don’t act.  They are very much a Generation Me, than a Generation We.

This got me thinking about some of my comments in my recent post on the St. Patrick’s Day riots in London, Ontario. About how strongly I feel about teaching youth to be positive members of society, that work hard and think about others.  While there are certainly members of that generation that are exceptionally hard workers and empathetic citizens, like Alyzee (who writes here from time to time), I have seen these stereotypes first hand with others.  I have observed friend’s classes in post-secondary institutions, and seen a generation that is disrespectful of their teachers, treating the teacher and institution as though they work for them. They think they should be able to pick and choose what work they feel like doing, and that they should not be penalized for not completing it in full.  That same attitude is creeping into the workforce, where the young people think they know better than the boss and aren’t afraid to tell them such.  When told the quality of their work needs improving or are given notes on improvements they can make to their work, I’ve seen full grown temper tantrums and series of childish texts and unprofessional emails.  These are all of course stereotypes of the generation as a whole, but stereotypes that are increasingly being witnessed by friends and colleagues across the country.

 

An image of a few Millennials at the St. Patrick's Day Riot in London, Ontario.

 

So why then does the article go on to suggest,

 

“Self-indulgent or not, marketing experts recognize this generation, as potentially one of the most powerful ever.”

 

I think the key words in this sentence are ‘marketing experts’ and the fact that later in the article it talks about how these kids influence their parents to buy.

A Statistical Illustration of the Past 3 Generation, from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

I question whether those marketing experts are confusing the impact of social media with that generation (when the leaders and influencers in that space, are generally those in Generation X) or if it is simply that they are bigger spenders.  If it’s the latter, then where are they getting their money?  If it’s from their parents, then doesn’t there come a point when the parents must cut the purse strings?  Will the spending be sustainable once the parents or student’s loans aren’t bankrolling the deep pockets?

Would love your opinions on this.  Do this stereotypes play true?  How long can society sustain a Generation Me?  Do we continue to make the same mistakes with the next generation?  If something doesn’t change, what will the next generation in this illustration from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology look like?

Etiquette with Emme: Rioting

I’ll admit it.  This past year I have been looking at certain things in society and have been absolutely horrified by our lack of social graces and consideration for others.  I see pockets of society of grown 5 year olds, where it is still ‘all about ME’ and passing of the blame.  As a result, I have long considered starting a column, which I am sure will piss off some, reminding people of societal graces and what it means to grow up past the age of 5. Last night’s riot in London, Ontario was the final straw for me. It’s time and yes, I’m a little more than annoyed this morning.

 

Scenes shared on twitter of St. Patrick's Day violence in London, Ontario. 2012

 

Back in June when the rioting happened in Vancouver, I was asked what my opinion was.  I said nothing (aside from to my close friends), as I wasn’t there and was going through my only personal Hell at the time.  When riots then broke out in England, I thought, ” it’s time, I really should share my opinion”, but I didn’t, I got busy instead.  Well enough is enough, and I am sure as Hell going to share my opinion this morning.

As the fireman said on the CBC News this morning, “Grow Up”.  This kind of behavior wasn’t acceptable when you were 5 and terroized the neighbour’s dog and your younger siblings, breaking things and throwing a fit, and it sure as Hell isn’t now that you’ve graduated to turning over vehicles, lighting them on fire and throwing beer bottles (at other people, no less).  If you weren’t given a swat on the bum when you were a kid, you probably should have been.  You need to understand that there are repercussions to your actions.  I encourage the police to show you this by charging you and Fanshaw College to show those of you that attend this by suspending or kicking you out.  This sort of behavior is not acceptable and will not be tolerated. It should not be something that youth in this country continue to brag about.

 

A Screenshot Shared on Twitter of Facebook bragging about the St. Patrick's Day riots in London., Ontario.

 

Parents – there is no excuse for your child’s behavior in this circumstance. Don’t protect them, let them hide behind you and make excuses and lie for them. Sit them down, tell them they’ve screwed up and help them find a way to make up for what they’ve done, starting by taking responsibility and owning up to their mistakes. Just watch this video.  These College Students are treating this as a party.

 

 

“The rioting was started by another group.” “The police didn’t do enough to stop us.” “I was drunk.” “My friends were doing it.” ARE NOT EXCUSES FOR YOUR ACTIONS.  You hurt and scared others and damaged property. Take responsibility and start to become a positive member of society, helping others, not hurting them for your gain or amusement.  This is real life, not a movie or a video game. If that means recognizing that your friends are not good for you and moving on from them, then so be it, that’s part of growing up and being an adult.

Future Parents – Learn from what we’ve seen as of late in society, and be a parent, not your child’s best buddy.  I know you are proud of them, but if you really want to be proud of them later on then they need a bit of tough love from time to time.  You need to teach them to respect and be considerate of others. That mistakes happen, but they need to take responsibility for them and right them. And yes, sometimes it is their fault ~ don’t pass the blame. They need to learn to work hard and be a productive member of society.  I know we like to think of them as perfect, but they’re not (none of us are), and telling them they are does them no good. And they need to learn that there are real reprecussions to their actions. You don’t want this to be the kids you raised:

 

A Screenshot Shared on Twitter of Facebook photos posted from the St. Patrick's Day riots in London., Ontario.

 

As a society, we’ve made mistakes with no fail policies and protecting our young too much. We’ve seen how destructive too much hand holding can be and passing the blame on others for our child’s failures, now it’s time to stop, and fix the mistakes we’ve made. Be aware and respectful of those around you, work hard, take pride in your work, and take responsibility for your actions.

~ Emme

 

The Reviews are Rolling in for Victor Victoria at the Metro Theatre

With our contest closing at midnight for tickets to Victor Victoria at the Metro Theatre, I thought I’d share some of the reviews rolling in for Vancouver’s Premiere of this entertaining musical and the return of Jeff Hyslop to the Vancouver stage.  But first, be sure that you enter to win a pair of tickets to the musical:

  • Here on Being Emme (contest closes at midnight TONIGHT, March 18th, 2012), and
  • Roamancing (contest closes at midnight on Wednesday March 21st, 2012).

 

Victor Victoria plays at Vancouver's Metro Theatre, March 17th – April 7, 2012.

 

The Interviews …

What do you do when you’ve done it all? If you’re triple threat Jeff Hyslop you look for projects that excite you, like Metro Theatre’s upcoming production of Victor/Victoria.  And if you’re director Mark Carter, you realize size sometimes does matter.

“It’s all about the script and this is a quality script.  I didn’t hesitate,” explained Hyslop (pictured right with director Mark Carter).  “It was perfect timing too as I was moving back to Vancouver and it wasn’t a starring role so the weight of show wasn’t going to rest on my shoulders.”

What does one limit themselves to asking when doing an interview with one of the most prolific and successful Canadian Triple Threats, actor, singer, dancer, the notable Jeff Hyslop? (Actually, “Quadruple” as he is also a director.) My challenge was to direct the myriad questions I had and the stories he had into the short, but time-stopping two hours we shared. Publicist Cheryl Hutcherson set the scene comfortably and we soon sailed into the creative, exciting, rich world of Jeff Hyslop.

 

Opening Night Reviews …

With Opening Night, just last night, the Reviews are only just coming in, so I will be updating this section, as I see more.

It’s always a full house when the yearly musical is presented at Metro, and the cast and crew deserved the proplonged standing ovation on opening night.

Filling in for an injured Jeff Hyslop, understudy Seth Little was opening night’s highlight as Metro Theatre presents the stage musicalVictor/Victoria. …  Almost at par with Little’s wonderful performance Saturday night was the scene-stealing Karin Inghammar as Norma Cassidy who milks every ounce of fun from the ditzy blonde moll as she drops malapropisms like bonbons across the stage.

 

Catch Victor Victoria at the Metro Theatre in Vancouver from March 17th – April 7, 2012, with performances on Wednesdays to Saturdays at 8pm and two Sunday Matinees on March 25 & April 1 at 2pm. Tickets can be purchased here.

 

Win a Perfect Vancouver Date Night at Victor Victoria at the Metro Theatre

One of the downfalls of having been on the road these past few months has been having to turn down all of the lovely Vancouver Theatre tickets.  Fortunately Alyzee Lakhani has been able to attend in my stead and I’ve been able to experience all the great theatre I’ve been missing through her prose, or at least I was until she hit the road too (she’s in Mozambique, so stay tuned for her tales from there on Roamancing). Our loss, however, is your gain, as we’ve asked that our tickets be given to a lucky reader here and on Roamancing.  And a loss it is for us, as this next musical would have very much tickled my fancies.

So what is the musical you ask?  Victor Victoria at the Metro Theatre, based on the 1982 musical comedy film by Blake Edwards (adapted from the 1933 script of a German film by Reinhold Schünzel), which I am sure there are a few in Vancouver’s Arts Community that could relate to the premise behind this story.  You see Victoria (played by Sylvia Zaradic) is a struggling performer looking for her big break. On the advice of Toddy, a middle-aged gay performer, Victoria takes on the real life role of Count Victor Grazinski, a gay Polish female impersonator.  Why you ask (or at least so you asked in my head)?  To get an agent and her big break, of course, and that is exactly what she does.  Only, as I am sure you can imagine, it is not all that smooth sailing playing the part of a man, when you become the bed ‘fellow’ of a known gangster.  Bring on the conundrums, misunderstandings and delightfully ridiculous!

 

Sylvia Zaradic and Jeff Hyslop, as Victoria / Victor and Toddy

 

Now, if this hasn’t perked your curiosity, just wait until you hear who is playing Toddy!  None other than Jeff Hyslop, the quintessential Phantom of the Opera from the traveling Canadian Production!  Also known, by those of you close in age to me, as Jeff the mannequin in the children’s show Today’s Special.  The Metro Theatre puts on great musicals, but with Jeff Hyslop in the cast, this is one musical not to miss.

So how do you win the tickets?  We have a pair of tickets to giveaway here and a pair to giveaway on Roamancing (stay tuned for that giveaway in a day or two) with your choice of Wednesday March 28 or April 4th.  To enter:

  • Comment below with something crazy you have or would do for your dream job;
  • The Deadline to enter is Sunday March 18th, 2012 at midnight PST.

To be entered a second, third and fourth time:

  • Tweet this post with me, @EmmeRogers, @MetroTheatre and #VancouverTheatre somewhere in the tweet, so I see the tweet;
  • Share this post on facebook and include @Roamancing in the text when you post it (this should link Roamancing’s facebook page, so I’ll see the post); and/or
  • Share this post on G+ and include @Emme Rogers in the text when you post it (this should alert me on G+ of your post).

I shall pull the name of one lucky winner from commenters, tweeters, facebookers and G+ers, and announce the winner on Monday March 19th.  Very much looking forward to making somebody happy!

Oh, and if sadly you don’t win, the play is running at the Metro Theatre in Vancouver from March 17th – April 7, 2012, with performances on Wednesdays to Saturdays at 8pm and two Sunday Matinees on March 25 & April 1 at 2pm. Tickets can be purchased here.

Kisses,

Emme xoxo

Valentine’s Love

For me Valentine’s should not be a one day affair or simply about couples.  Valentine’s should be an on-going philosophy of remembering to tell the people in your life that you love them and showing them that on a regular basis.  Saying “I love you”  when you get off the phone or bid them adieu, giving them hugs and kisses when you see them and leave them, and doing thoughtful things for them.

 

Alas I may not be Richard Yearwood's 'lover', but I do love that this man has no issues with hugging, kissing or telling me he loves me. The feeling is mutual and one of the many reasons I love to both work and play with this man.

 

These are not simply the ramblings of a gal that is single on Valentine’s Day.  I actually generally prefer my single Valentines, as more people tell me they love me and I am never met with disappointment.  Plus Fuzzywiggle Furrypants Roo makes the best damn Valentine’s cat that there ever was.  She gives even more kisses and hugs than I do (and I’m pretty liberal with mine).

No, this is a philosophy instilled in me thanks to my parents.  And thanks to them, it is the reason that I know where I stand with my family, close friends and many of the people who I work with (who I consider to be family and close friends) ~ they love me and I love them (Hell, at  Ahimsa that seems to be one of the long term prerequisites ~ do they have talent and do we love them ~ necessary after all, when we do long hours, all over the World).  And as I get older and have sadly started to lose some of the people in my life that I love, it is for this reason that I always know the last thing that I said to them ~ I  love you! (and despite saying these words often, every day of my life, they are not hollow words).

And with that, I send all you lovely readers some hugs …

 

 

With smooches to Ian MacLatchy for posting this video on our producer, Erica’s, facebook wall, where I spotted it.

Love and Kisses,

Emme xoxo